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Ok, I got a few things to say... Seems kinda hinky that you are one who puts your heart and soul into the relationship and works to fix problems as they present yet you wanted to help her get back on her feet, financially speaking. Obviously, you seem dedicated, which makes me think she dumped you. So probably not a spur of the moment decision for her. What I do not get is why you still wanted to help her through school and support her. Most people would be pissed off in your case. Does she have access to your house, such as a key? Did you change the locks when you separated? I doubt she was nice up to the day you separated, then just turned total bitch like that. Had to have been warning signs. Not blaming you, just sayin'... Plus, when she left you, she probably had some support system to keep her off the streets, unless of course she is an idiot. If she did have access to your home, she could have simply logged into your computer and pulled up your bank account sites from your browser history. If you have the browser save your passwords it would be simple to get into your bank account information. Also, if you use the same passwords for everything, it would be easy to figure out your account information and then just enter your commonly used password. I would do a few things in your case. Make a police report. Secure your home and possessions. Find out when the money was moved to try and prove you were not the one who made the transfer. That may at least prove to your bank you did not take the money and may be a way to get a return of some of the money. The other thing, find out which bank account it was transferred to. If it is an account in her name, seems like a sealed deal. Hiring a lawyer may not be a bad idea either. I hope are not taking my comments as accusing, just rather offering my perspective from what you wrote to maybe help you learn. It sounds like a crappy situation. I hope you can get some of the acute issues resolved. I also hope that you can learn from this experience, grow, move on, and find a healthy relationship for yourself. Good luck bro !

Nice ride man take care of her and be safe...remember its not you that you have to worry about. It is all the other idiots.

I know i was a bit obscure, but i was talking more about peoples emotional reaction to what a community/culture believes is hallowed or sacred ground, while the circumstances are different the emotion is irrelevent in both cases. I don't think it ebing your soil is the issue, i think the emotion is the issue, and im sure you have US citizens who are muslim no? The reason there is an issue with this is because of cras views stated by someone earlier "all terrorists are muslims" Thats the problem, no mater whose soil your on. Typical kiwi's! So, hows about them all whites

Sorry to hear about your loss. You and your family are in our prayers.

Nobody thinks Islam is the only religion that can be abused. History has shown- and was pointed out here- that many religions have been perverted and used as "weapons" to justify extreme viewpoints. Problem is, Islam is the religion de jour now. Last time I checked, the folks causing mayhem throughout the world are MUSLIM extremists, not Baptists, Wicans, or Lutherans. The problems with the Catholic church- pedophiles- is an issue that needs to be addressed by the Catholic church. Many folks are straying from that religion because of the way they have handled this issue. That is their problem, but nobody can say that any form of Catholicism justifies or explains this behavior. I have yet to see a priest cite a biblical passage that condones molesting children. The radical Muslims use an aberrant form of Islam to justify their actions. Not even remotely the same thing.

Hey, I figured there was more to the story... just the way you put it out the first time didn't make sense to me, lol. As far as the person who says not to support me, free country, free forum. I own my opinions and put them out there, and sometimes I put my foot in my mouth. My opinion based on the lower amount of information stands- if you don't have medical need, don't do it. 4c6's story, with more flesh to it, is quite obviously one of medical need... I also didn't know that "silly" was part of a brand name... haven't played with the emo kids for a while, not up on their latest gig. Sounded like a dig at their fashion, sorry 'bout that! As far as armchair medic-ing... isn't that what the forum is FOR? Duh... Wendy CO EMT-B