Rookie, I thought about your post while working my 48-hour shift which just ended this morning. Essentially, I got a new partner who is both young and a fairly new Basic. On our first call together, it was a cluster. Not that either one of us didn't know what to do but rather in the fact that we simply had not gotten our rhythm. By our last call, it was getting much better. We have the month together before we switch partners again...but I wager that by then, we'll be cooking with gas.
Moral of my story...maybe part of your "issue" also lied in the fact that you and your partner are still getting used to each other as well. Communication is key. When you feel like something isn't right, ask about it. And, then take everything with a grain of salt and decide for yourself if it has merit. Some times it does...and some times it doesn't. But, at least you both will know where the other stands.
Gee...I hope this makes sense. Long shift...so off to bed now.
G'night, Gracie.