Thank you all for the advice. I ended up talking to the instructor one on one to get a better idea of what kind of boundries we should establish. The end result was actually quite positive, we now see eye-to-eye and in the end I was told that it would be beneficial for me to continue to start these discussions in class, as long as we don't get too off topic of course.
I'd like to comment a bit on the new day and age of adult education as I see it. I understand that a lot of services out there have a whole "eat your young" mentality and "you have to put x amount of years in before you can even have an opinion!" I see it quite a bit in EMS, and I think it is holding us back as a profession.
Being a student, you make a lot of sacrafices. You have to take time off work, move away from friends and family and it's not cheap. As students, we have certain expectations going into school that we will be treated a certain way and have a certain amount of freedom in the classroom. However, we are the product of our instructors and our school. Our instructors are the ones with the power and have an obligation towards evaluating us to a certain level. I definitely do not want to border on arrogance, but I want my instructors to help me build confidence when warranted.
Having said that, there's also a fine line between confidence and arrogance. If a student is to receive too much hype, praise and flattery, it's a slippery slope that can easily carry them over the border into arrogance. It is not only toxic, it can be deadly. I've tried to make it my goal not to allow myself to get overconfident, especially now that I'm an ACP student, because that's when practitioners will miss a step, lose their focus and potentially hurt somebody. A balance is definitely required in an instructor between fostering learning and being critical towards bad attitudes and bad habits so they don't manifest throughout their career.
I liked that quote Dwayne, I think in this day and age we must really pick and choose who we want to learn from, and if it's not a proactive relationship then there's no harm in ending it.