Going to interject despite not having time to participate fully, as well as being really late to the party.
Something I'd like us all to think about...miscusi. Man, we've kind of taken to being rude to anyone that doesn't share our opinion, or that we feel superior too..particularly if they are foolish enough to 'try', thus risking giving us a big stick to hit them with. Often insecurities are temporarily mitigated with bravado and false self confidence...but there are still real people under the facade.
I'm pretty confused by the responses to him/her. It sounded to me like s/he was saying, "This patient has been alive more than a month since the surgery and two days since the metal episode, so all things considered I'm confident that he will live regardless what I do, for the next ten minutes until I can drop him at the hospital." What would be a more productive, realistic attitude if you work in a 'do nothing, just transport" type of system?
If that is your system, and that is what you're used to, then what other things would we have liked him to have said? Granted, he didn't get the way that these scenarios are played, but it appeared to me that he tried over and over to explain his point, and it seemed pretty clear to me, but too many had already started to celebrate that "He gave us a stick and now I get to be him with it!" Not knowing how scenarios work didn't use to be a sin.
I guess what I'm saying is, what if you'd have tried to see his point of view instead of just insulting him out of the thread? What if he gave those answers because that's all that he knew how to do? Was he, or us, or the thread improved by continuing to tell him how stupid he is until he finally quit? Where is the joy or the challenge in that? Isn't the joy and challenge in helping that type of person, exactly that type of person, to move forward? Leaving them better than we found them?
I've given plenty or reasons to be called an idiot, and give more in almost every post, yet my friends here always find a way to push me back onto a productive path...It breaks my heart to see how this thread went early on. I am confident that if even a small effort had been made that his point of view could have been seen and appreciated..it just didn't seem that complicated to me. I'm not saying that I've never had my ass kicked here, nor participated...I guess I was bothered by the extra exclamation points during the insults.
It seems like I see more and more here that we protect our brothers and sisters that have been here for a while, but often are wicked hard on the newbies...I can't prove it, I'm not even sure that I'm right, and perhaps this guy/gal has a history that I'm unaware of that has earned them that type of disrespect from others...I just hate to see it. And it does appear to me, from my way of reading, that he wanted to stay and participate, that he wanted someone to give him the slightest reason to change..but he was asking too much. Again, to my reading, of course I could be dead wrong.
All comments as just me, not as a mod...I love you all, consider nearly every regular poster here to be my friend, but sometimes it seems like we accidentally, or on purpose, act like a group of bullies and that type of behavior represents, in my opinion, the very worst of EMS at all levels.