We don't set the path. That you don't like the path is not the point. The path is what it is. If this is what you want to do you will follow the path.
What's more, that you don't like the comments that you solicited doesn't make any of them wrong.
Nobody has belittled your service. Nor does your military service have anything to do with what you don't like in the civilian world.
Good for you.
Just like the Army trained you their way to do their job, civilian EMS trains you to do things their way in their job. It's no different. Want to do the job? You earn it.
You may have little experience with this yet, but EMS has a pretty bad rap for people wanting things for nothing. It hurts the profession when people take shortcuts or try to beat the system. There are times when a workaround to solve a problem can be a good thing. When it comes to education, however, it creates bigger problems.
What's interesting here is that you have no idea who you're talking to. You don't know our backgrounds, our experiences, our education, where we've been or what we've done. Yet you're presuming an awful lot.
What's more interesting is that just about every combat vet I know or work with none of them make a big deal about it. Downplay it, even.
It's the loud one's you need to look out for.