It may be that i am a female, we live in a very country. he calls me a F&ing tree hugger lol. As for going to my boss (my Capt). She favors him says that i could learn a lot from him because of his military back round. My Lt knows that there have been full out and out fights with him yelling and cursing at me. and she is very upset, keeps coming to my defence. Right now the way our shifts are set up unless i were moved to another shift there is nothing they can to to split us up, and doing that would very much upset the other teams. so till then while we are at the station i am nose into the computer. on calls i put my patent care number 1 and cover his tail so the pt does not suffer. and enjoy the days he does a shift change or does not come into work. it would be nice to have a better partner, but i am not going to start waves. the days go by, we work 24 hour shifts so its only 9 days a month.. okay so i am reaching for the positive side of things. .. thanks for the concern.