Well, since we can't give blood transfusions (so all the Jehovah's Witness folks are ok) and we can't give birth control (so all the Catholics are ok) and the kind of care we provide is compassionate, skilled care regardless of who our patient is, I think this discussion isn't particularly pertinent to EMS in and of itself. I mean.. unless there's some Scientologists who don't want to intubate because it screws over the karma of the person's aura which will send them straight to somewhere or other when they die.... (I know nothing about Scientologists... no offense :wink:) I can't think of any procedures that EMS personnel would object to DOING. Now, what the patient objects to you doing to them is a whole 'nother bucket of worms.
Stuff like praying with patients or baptizing stillborn infants falls under the realm of compassionate care, rather than physical care; you might not believe it but it helps them, so you do it. To a point; you have to remain true to your own beliefs, so if they want you to profess your faith in God/Allah/Buddha/Etcetera with them, then you can say, I can't do that, but I can affirm and support your doing so.
I think this idea applies more to other medical fields, like pharmacists, primary care physicians, and so on and so forth. If a physician can't perform a skill or isn't comfortable with his skills in that particular area being requested, he can always refer a patient to another doctor. In emergency medicine though, you don't have time for that, so you better be ready to kick butt when necessary and reconcile yourself to whatever violations to your faith that might have occurred later. You have a mission- a job to do with all of the manual and cognizant skill that you possess.
For me, that is a part of my faith; I minister to those injured, sick or otherwise hurting. If they want me to pray with them, I'm glad to; the only prayer I'll do otherwise is as we ride out towards the call- for protection and assistance in DOING MY DUTY. And I don't scream it out to the world; my relationship between God and myself is not something I need to advertise or foist on others.
Look at it this way- you get mad at the co-worker whose significant other is all over them in a very public way; it makes some people uncomfortable. They have a right to that emotion, but not to subject others to it who don't want to be subjected to it. Therefore, since prayer is an affirmation of my relationship with God, and it makes some people uncomfortable, I keep public display of it to a minimum without losing my ability TO pray when I need to.
Eydawn
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