Thanks for the replies so far everyone! Yeah I'm really torn ... I've had my bike license for a year, and I really, really want one, but every time I think about going for it I think about how dangerous it is. I would be careful and wear all of the protective gear but I know that's no guarntee.
I'm only 20 and I don't know if i should get one before I(hopfully) have a family some day, or just do it now because I'm sure wives aren't motorcycle fans. My dad doesn't want me to get one because he's had friends die on them, and his room mate in college was a paramedic and made him promise him that he would never get one. That was in the 70s though, when people were doing acid and wheelies with no helmets.
I don't want to be afraid to live, but I don't want to be stupid either. This is probably one the hardest things I've ever had to decide.