Happiness

leave it im shy, a can of tim hortons coffee

Take it i love elvis leave a zapper to wake up the idles in the chat

leave it (god knows what was spilled on that towel) a stupid doberman

i have 2 and at this moment my good friend is pushing the ink in and it hurts but it is worth it. As someone who has them I really think they should be covered as we still have the older generation. Now just wait until we are that generation and it wont matter because we will have them along with the medic. I will post my tattoo in the site later. happiness

A chicken and an egg are lying in bed. The chicken is leaning against the headboard smoking a cigarette, with a satisfied smile on his face. The egg, looking a bit pissed off, grabs the sheet, rolls over, and says. "Well, I guess we finally answered THAT question."

Is that a picture of spenac at the bottom lol :shock:

Quiet and Slow are words never said to a emt, nurse or doc in our community.

Wow what a hand slap Dwayne. First of all the fact of my grammar skills have dick squat to do with my parenting skills you df. Second of all I did a great job with my kids and they are all productive citizens in their communities. They all have great manners and still to this day if they are grocery shopping they will carry little old ladies groceries to their cars. They are not dead and they are not in jail. They go to work everyday and they pay their bills like you should when you become and adult. I was not a perfect mother by any means and I didn't blame anyone else but let me tell you unless you live in a bubble then your kids are going to influenced by what is going on in our society good and bad. I was not blaming society as a whole I was saying that it had a part to do with how our kids precieve the world. I took responsibilty for my kids and I made them take responsibility for their actions. I never once appoligiesed for anything my kids did I made them do it. So Dywany are you telling me if one of your grandkids was in trouble and your son/daughter asked you to help them by taking the kids because as the op said that child would listen to you would say no. Then you say that my son became healthy because I am no longer in his life my god give you head a shake Im very much in his life. My kid became an adult and grew up. He is healthy because when he was young he was taught to say please and thankyou, to take his dishes to the counter, to clean a toilet, to do laundry, to respect his elders, and to be a good person in general not because he is away from me. You decided to make this a personal attack against me and I don't appreciate that. The fact that the one with attitude went to go live with his grandparents was his choice not mine, and it was the best thing for him. My point to this whole thing was the fact that the OP came here to ask people what they thought about her sending a child to his grandparents. She gave alittle background on the pros and cons and then some of the posters slammed her and to me that statement sounded snotty. As i said before it wasn't the advice, but she could have left it at that. Then she says it was to pull her out of her victim stance as far as I could see all she was doing was asking for advice I never saw a victim in the post. Well to all of you who think I am wrong in this and that I am a terrible parent you are intittled to your opinon but be aware that I am to. I would love to know what books and semminars you all went to, to make yourselves such perfect parents. The other thing you should remember is that Teenagers are Teenager and in every generations you have the ones that glide through it with out insident and there are the ones that will rebel when given the opportunity. Its nice to know you got the gliders.

The apology was for the statement You picked him - chosed him to be the father of your children, not the advise. That statement sounds like well its her fault from the very beginning just because she had his kids. Maybe he was a great guy at that time maybe not it just sounded snotty to me. And im sorry to say there are those kids and I had one that think the world owes them something and short of beating the snot out of them there is nothing a parent could do. I was so thankful when my parents took charge of him that is what families are for. Now my son realizes after living on his own that he was an ass and has even appologied to us for the attitude. Also our society is a part of the blame as we as parents have been taught that we must give our kids more than what we had. This is something that came from the depression era and it was a goal then but now it has gone overboard. happy

So before this link turns into something hurtful to someone who came to the city for advice on "Sending an unruly child to live with the grandparents" I personally think Kaisu that you went completely off topic and have tried to make this parent think she is doing something wrong. Ladybear came here for support not to be put down. I to never said anything bad about my sons father and yes they did make their own opinion of him. Then again he didn't get them hooked on drugs either and if he had my children would have heard many things putting him down on a regular basis. You owe her an aplology in my opinion. happy

Well Ladybear it sounds like you have made the decision you need to make. My oldest son went through the school of hard knocks and now he is 25 and making it.He quit school in grade 11 and decided to live with his dad. Well low and behold daddy picked him up at the airport gave him 100 bucks and said make it. (I will never forgive his father for that) My son called me one day from a cardboard box to finally say he needed to come home. I bought his ticket and home he came and so did the crappy attitude that he left with. After he watched all his friends going to thier graduation ceremony (he was watching from the bottle return depot where he was working) he decided he needed his education and went to live with gramma and grampa completed grades 11 and 12 in one year with a 85% average. Sometimes they just need to see the world from a different perspective, but still know that there is someone who loves them unconditionaly = grandparents. I hope you and your son all the best and remember there are always others in this world who have done the same thing and will be there to help you. Happiness

wow thats it just wow

We have a guy here who we practice our airways on. He was pretty much everyones first (the call is always etoh related). This guy has no gag reflex and when he wakes up he will sit up and pull out the airway. One way I test for this is that I will warn the pt that I will be pinching them and if no response I take my pen and press hard down on the fingernails that normally wakes them up and if not well I guess they are not faking.

BABIES when they told me that if you go to a call for a baby the parent will throw it in your arms and screem save my baby. Im here to say it is true its what they do and it is always hard to get a good history out of a histarical parent. The other thing is having to fly to my pt. I unlike the others like the psych calls. They are a challange for me.

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

I make sure the cops are there they do the original take down. Then the restraints are installed to the pt. and off we go with a few ff and cops to the hospital.. We have both leather and soft and depending on what kind of phyc this is dictates which kind i use.

Okay Dust hurry up and get better I have no one to complain about, the nice side of everyone is comming through you need to get back here and creat some havoc. We need to start a survey on how did Dust get hurt in the first place. I don't know how to do this so if anyone does please start one. We have had Loan Sharks Cap caught in door He's a klutz Got his ass kicked by Dwayne And from Me the Husband came home early take care dust and when you come back we can have a discussion on why your opinion is wrong about volleys lol :lol:/

And we know you were on line at the same time how, because you say so hummmmm how gullable do you really think we are

Knew he/she would show up. So AK you were pretty factual about admin not being canadian so how would you know that. You know that us canadians are taking over the world :lol:/ :color: :wav:

gee you would think the almighty ADMIN would show up here by now and make his case. You know I'm sure some where I heard he was Canadian. Any one else hear that

The first thing I tell anyone new here is don't piss off the fire men. They have saved my back, they have all the equipment out before I ask for it, they give me alot of information because alot of the time they are there first, and if I have a bad call they are my support and I appreciate them to no end. When Im driving and someone is in front of my rig (idiot or not) if Im going 70 I tend to slow down instead of participating in a game of chicken. I guess knowing the pt is going to make it made all the bs worth while

Admin is real iv seen the shoes, the back yard and of course the beer.

My List includes, To see all my grand children get married (I don't even have any yet) To get over the fear of being alone. To get over the fear of flying To be able to say I made a difference in someone life

I would have to agree with helimedic on the fact that the topic was suppose to point to the fact of the abuse in the profession. As far as I can see in most of the posts is that everyone tunnled in on the fact that someone smokes pot. The other thing I saw in these post is that if anyone found out that their partner had a problem with substance abuse they dropped them like a hot potato. Now I don't know how things work in big stations but I would hope to hell that if my partner had a problem I would be able to be there to help them and if it was me with the problem they would help me and not just abandon me. We spent our time being compassionate to strangers and when it comes time to be compassionate to the one we spend alot of our time together our compassion dissapears. Our profession along with ff, nurses, police ect are in the top of list of substance abusers. In our jobs we see the worst side of the human species and I dont care how tough you think you are we all have our vices and down falls. Im a very lucky person who lives in a place were I can unwind on the beach, If I need to talk my partner listens and vice versa and my family and friends are my biggest support. So I guess my point is that maybe instead of just slamming someone and threatning to find them and bring them to justice ect we should be looking at this topic as something that really needs some serious discussion so maybe if someone who does have a problem can read these posts and know that there are people to go to for help.

andymass can tell you what the protocols are there im sure he wouldn't mind you sending him a pm