uglyEMT Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 Two things I can think of. 1. Remeber its her day 2. Remeber its her day Thats the most important. After that, make sure the food is good and the liquor is free. Music hopefully is good. If you have the food, booze and music covered the rest is easy. Mistakes ARE going to happen, things will get screwed up but in the end it goes by so fast you wont have time to remeber it. Most of all enjoy your beautiful day and dont sweat the small stuff. Congrats
HERBIE1 Posted June 26, 2010 Posted June 26, 2010 I don't know how far along you are in the planning, but the operative phrase here is "Sounds like a great idea, dear." If she asks about a color scheme, type of flowers, menu, etc, don't just say- "whatever you want". PRETEND you give a crap, even if you don't. You think you are being agreeable and helpful by deferring to the mrs, but they become overwhelmed. Make a decision- even a minor one. It will work wonders. My biggest worry was the reception. I couldn't care less about the flowers, dresses, color scheme, decorations on the tables, party favors, seating chart- but I soon found out ""Whatever you want, dear" was NOT acceptable. The groom has it easy. We rent a monkey suit, bring the ring, and that's it. No hair appointment, no makeup, no nails, no multiple fittings for a dress. Biggest caveat- come the big day- don't worry. As long as you two are there, the priest, judge, or whomever is officiating the event is there- the rest is gravy. Little issues will happen- let them go, and enjoy the day. Congrats!.
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